Like it or not, V-Day is coming, and with it another round of lovey-dovey listage detailing the Bests, Top 10s, and Most Romantics the city has to offer. Aside from the usual impossible-to-get-a-rezzie restaurants and prohibitively pricey getaways, here are some roundups that really get to the heart (pun intended) of what Valentine’s Day in San Francisco is all about.

Going Out. Most San Franciscans already know where they want to eat on Valentine’s Day, but if you’re stumped, Opentable makes it easy to check availability and make reservations from their V-Day restaurant list. More elusive is what to do before the meal. 7x7’s roundup of Where To Get Romantic, Or Not in the days leading up to Valentine’s day details some unique ideas, including a tantalizing “Snuggie Love” package complete with much-needed (we assume) SKYY vodka. For general ideas, their Best Ideas for 1-2 Punch Dates is a good starting point for a variety of date scenarios.