Those of you paying attention may have noticed the lack of a certain warm, witty, and meticulous voice of reason on theater, social issues, and graphic design on this site as of late -- well, that's because our own SFist Cheshire is getting married this weekend! Mazel tov, Chesh -- we can't wait to hear how it goes! Meanwhile, in Cheshire's honor, we're providing a post about the ins and outs of planning a San Francisco wedding (either same-sex or opposite-), just like J. Lo's Mary Fiore!