On Valentine's Day, don't cry yourself to sleep with your cat sleeping on one side of you and your laptop showing a Netflix livestream marathon of Damages Season 2 on the other. Instead, here are two opportunities to vent your amorous frustrations the healthy way.

First, marriage equality supporters from across the nation will once again be standing on the side of civil rights and decency at the marriage counter at S.F. City Hall "where same-sex couples ask for marriage licenses to render visible the government's discriminatory law." That is to say, there will be a sit-in at the City Hall.

The action goes down at San Francisco City Hall (1 Dr. Carlton B. Goodlett Plaza), Monday, February 14th. Rally goes from 11 a.m. -11:45 a.m. on the steps of City Hall. Counter protest starts at 11:45 a.m.

Second, just like same-sex marriage, the annual Valentine's Day pillow fight will happen, whether you like it or not. "Tons of people just wait out in front of the Ferry Building," former participant and San Francisco resident Issac Wexman explains to SF Appeal. "Basically, everyone is standing there in silence until 6 o'clock hits. Then it's just madness."