<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/"><channel><title><![CDATA[divorce - SFist - San Francisco News, Restaurants, Events, & Sports]]></title><description><![CDATA[SFist is San Francisco's source for fun, witty, & serious news. With updates about restaurants, events, sports, politics & more, SFist reaches millions of users in California.]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/</link><image><url>https://sfist.com/favicon.png</url><title>divorce - SFist - San Francisco News, Restaurants, Events, &amp; Sports</title><link>https://sfist.com/</link></image><generator>Ghost 2.12</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 12:47:14 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://sfist.com/divorce/rss/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[SF Giants Pitcher Sean Hjelle Accused of Abuse and Infidelity by His Wife in Viral TikTok Video]]></title><description><![CDATA[Major League Baseball is investigating allegations of abuse and infidelity made against SF Giants reliever Sean Hjelle by his estranged wife, Caroline Hjelle. The claims were made public Friday in a viral TikTok post that garnered over 3 million views before it was deleted.]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2025/06/22/giants-pitcher-sean-hjelle-accused-of-abuse-and-infidelity-by-his-wife-in-viral-tiktok-video/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">685844f98eb7fe124a8aec92</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[sports]]></category><category><![CDATA[sf giants]]></category><category><![CDATA[baseball]]></category><category><![CDATA[MLB]]></category><category><![CDATA[Major League Baseball]]></category><category><![CDATA[tiktok]]></category><category><![CDATA[viral video]]></category><category><![CDATA[domestic abuse]]></category><category><![CDATA[domestic violence]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Leanne Maxwell]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 22 Jun 2025 18:46:22 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://img.sfist.com/2025/06/GettyImages-2220153591.jpg" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://img.sfist.com/2025/06/GettyImages-2220153591.jpg" alt="SF Giants Pitcher Sean Hjelle Accused of Abuse and Infidelity by His Wife in Viral TikTok Video"><p>Major League Baseball is investigating allegations of abuse and infidelity made against SF Giants reliever Sean Hjelle by his estranged wife, Caroline Hjelle. The claims were made public Friday in a viral TikTok post that garnered over 3 million views before it was deleted.</p><p><a href="https://www.sfgate.com/giants/article/sf-giants-sean-hjelle-wife-accusation-infidelity-20387554.php">As SFGate reports</a>, Caroline appears in the video with the couple’s two sons, accompanied by overlaid text stating that Hjelle abandoned the family on Mother’s Day, shortly after she learned of his alleged affairs and “stopped putting up with his abuse.” The post is captioned: “Yeah I’ve had to be silent for too long about this,” and includes hashtags referencing divorce, infidelity, and solo motherhood.</p><p>TikTok user @hopeyoufindyourdad <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@hopeyoufindyourdad/video/7518553002467249421">featured the video</a> in a recent post:</p><blockquote class="tiktok-embed" cite="https://www.tiktok.com/@hopeyoufindyourdad/video/7518553002467249421" data-video-id="7518553002467249421" style="max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px;"> <section> <a target="_blank" title="@hopeyoufindyourdad" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@hopeyoufindyourdad?refer=embed">@hopeyoufindyourdad</a> @Caroline Hjelle man of the year trend has been ruined by angry men <a title="womenempowerment" target="_blank" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/womenempowerment?refer=embed">#womenempowerment</a> <a title="manoftheyear" target="_blank" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/manoftheyear?refer=embed">#manoftheyear</a> <a title="drama" target="_blank" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/drama?refer=embed">#drama</a> <a title="greenscreenvideo" target="_blank" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/greenscreenvideo?refer=embed">#greenscreenvideo</a> <a title="greenscreen" target="_blank" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/greenscreen?refer=embed">#greenscreen</a> <a target="_blank" title="♬ original sound  - Andra" href="https://www.tiktok.com/music/original-sound-Andra-7518553136744303373?refer=embed">♬ original sound  - Andra</a> </section> </blockquote> <script async src="https://www.tiktok.com/embed.js"></script><p></p><p>While the couple’s current marital status is unclear, Caroline’s account has previously featured content referencing single parenting and personal distress dating back to late 2024, according to SFGate. One post from April included the hashtag #divorce and a reference to “lies” that left her “devastated.”</p><p>In response to the viral post, the San Francisco Giants issued a statement on Saturday acknowledging the seriousness of the allegations, <a href="https://www.kron4.com/news/bay-area/mlb-investigating-abuse-claims-from-giants-pitchers-wife/">as reported by KRON4</a>. “We are aware of these serious allegations. We have been in contact with MLB. These types of allegations fall under their jurisdiction, and we won’t be commenting further,” the team said.</p><p>Manager Bob Melvin told reporters that Hjelle had informed him about the situation Friday night. “We talked to MLB,” Melvin said. “At this point, it’s in their jurisdiction… I really can’t comment on it further.” Melvin added that Hjelle would be available to pitch in Saturday’s game, though he ultimately did not appear in the 3-2 win against the Boston Red Sox.</p><p>Hjelle has not publicly denied the claims. <a href="https://www.espn.com/mlb/story/_/id/45557514/mlb-investigating-abuse-allegations-giants-hjelle">Speaking to ESPN</a> after Saturday’s game, he confirmed that he and Caroline are in the process of finalizing a divorce. “I feel confident in saying that I will have one [a statement] eventually,” he said. “I’d like to meet with the people handling the situation with me before I make an official statement.”</p><p><em>Image: SAN FRANCISCO, CALIFORNIA - JUNE 18: Sean Hjelle #64 of the San  Francisco Giants pitches at Oracle Park on June 18, 2025 in San  Francisco, California. (Photo by Suzanna Mitchell/San Francisco  Giants/Getty Images)</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Video: Techie Newlyweds Spend Miserable Honeymoon Living On Bitcoin Alone]]></title><description><![CDATA[Austin and Beccy Craig "struggle for 100+ days to live entirely on the upstart currency."]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2015/07/17/video_disruptive_newlyweds_spend_mi/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c2427ad44ad066cdcf48c80</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[bitcoin]]></category><category><![CDATA[cryptocurrency]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[documentary]]></category><category><![CDATA[honeymoon]]></category><category><![CDATA[wedding]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Caleb Pershan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2015 12:30:29 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2015/07/life-bitcoin-thumb-640xauto-903392.jpg" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2015/07/life-bitcoin-thumb-640xauto-903392.jpg" alt="Video: Techie Newlyweds Spend Miserable Honeymoon Living On Bitcoin Alone"><p><br>
One pioneering couple who can bravely afford to treat money as a fun little experiment is ready to premier their revolutionary new documentary, <em>Life on Bitcoin,</em> <a href="http://blog.archive.org/2015/07/14/you-are-invited-sf-premiere-of-life-on-bitcoin-documentary/">next week at the Internet Archive</a>. </p>

<p>Bitcoin, for the uninitiated, is like money in that it is a convenient, mutually agreed-upon convention. However, Bitcoin differs from money in that it is not nearly as mutually agreed-upon. Fortunately, the currency makes <a href="https://99bitcoins.com/the-best-7-bitcoin-tattoos/#prettyPhoto/2/">for great tattoos</a>.</p>

<p><em>Life On Bitcoin</em> follows newlywed bitcoin evangelists Austin and Beccy Craig "who struggle for 100+ days to live entirely on the upstart currency." Exploiting their honeymoon for artistic fodder, "it felt like learning to swim by jumping in the deep end of the pool,” said Austin. Indeed, it looks like it's truly sink or swim for the duo. Who keeps the bitcoin in the event of divorce?</p>

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<p><strong>DATE:</strong> Wednesday, July 22<br>
<strong>TIME:</strong> Doors open for mixing and refreshments at 6:30 PM. Seating begins at 8:15. The Archive has large windows, and the film will begin after sunset at 8:30.<br>
<strong>LOCATION:</strong> Internet Archive, 300 Funston Ave, San Francisco, CA 94118</p>

<p><a href="http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/internetarchivemembers-one/1838901">Buy tickets here</a> (Pay What You Can With $5 Minimum of the equivalent in bitcoin).</p>

<p>Pay with bitcoin link is available <a href="http://lifeonbitcoin.com/screenings/san-francisco/">here</a>.</p>

<p><strong>Related:</strong> <a href="http://sfist.com/2015/03/30/undercover_feds_on_silk_road_case_c.php">Two Feds On Silk Road Case Charged With Pocketing So Much Bitcoin</a></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Afternoon Murder-Suicide Rattles Petaluma]]></title><description><![CDATA[After Kim Conover, 31, paid a visit to her divorce attorney on Sunday afternoon, her estranged husband, Kevin Covover, 35, shot and killed her outside said lawyer's office, later turning the gun on hi...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2012/04/16/petaluma_afternoon_murder-suicide/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c2427d444ad066cdcf49f88</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[crime]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[guns]]></category><category><![CDATA[love]]></category><category><![CDATA[murder]]></category><category><![CDATA[murder-suicide]]></category><category><![CDATA[petaluma]]></category><category><![CDATA[suicide]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Brock Keeling]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 09:25:19 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2012/04/streetinpetaluma-thumb-640xauto-707600.jpg" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2012/04/streetinpetaluma-thumb-640xauto-707600.jpg" alt="Afternoon Murder-Suicide Rattles Petaluma"><p><span class="mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image" style="display: inline;">  </span>After Kim Conover, 31, paid a visit to her divorce attorney on Sunday afternoon, her estranged husband, Kevin Covover, 35, shot and killed her outside said lawyer's office, later turning the gun on himself. "The 2 p.m. shooting happened in front of <a href="http://goo.gl/az90j">10 Keller St</a>., a small office building where the woman had been visiting the attorney," reports <a href="http://www.pressdemocrat.com/article/20120415/ARTICLES/120419662/1350?p=2&amp;tc=pg">The Press Democrat</a>, adding, " Kevin Conover died at 5 p.m. at Santa Rosa Memorial Hospital. Police identified him as the shooter and said his wound appears to have been self-inflicted."</p>

<p>When police arrived at the scene, they found the bodies on the street.</p>

<p>Most heartbreaking of all, according to Press Democrat, was that Kim was the mother of four children, "including a twin boy and girl younger than than 2 years old that she had with her husband," and two teen girls. </p>

<p>Incidents like this are few and far between in the small, picturesque town  north of San Francisco. (However, the city made national headlines in the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Polly_Klaas">Polly Klaas kidnapping-murder</a> case.)  "It was this beautiful spring day," quipped Sonoma County Supervisor David Rabbitt, shopping at a just a block away at the time of the shooting. "It makes you pause."</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Schwarzenegger Not Pumped Up About Alimony]]></title><description><![CDATA[After California Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger admitted to <a href="http://sfist.com/2011/05/17/schwarzenegger_extramarital_baby_sh.php">fathering a child with a member of his household staff</a>, hi...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2011/07/22/schwarzenegger_not_pumped_up_about/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c2432c344ad066cdcfa3966</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[alimony]]></category><category><![CDATA[Arnold Schwarzenegger]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[Governor]]></category><category><![CDATA[Maria Shriver]]></category><category><![CDATA[marriage]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Brock Keeling]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2011 12:30:54 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image" style="display: inline;">  </span></p>

<p>After California Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger admitted to <a href="http://sfist.com/2011/05/17/schwarzenegger_extramarital_baby_sh.php">fathering a child with a member of his household staff</a>, his wife Maria Shriver filed for divorce. Adding insult to injury, Schwarzenegger doesn't want to pay spousal support according to a court filings. (Though, what with Shriver being a wealthy Kennedy in her own right, she doesn't really need it, does she?) However, according to <a href="http://www.ktvu.com/news/28626944/detail.html">KTVU</a>, "The dispute may have little impact on the divorce, since the former Hollywood couple is expected to reach a confidential, out-of-court settlement."</p>

<p>Both seek joint custody of their sons, <a href="http://sfist.com/2011/05/17/patrick_schwarzenegger_changes_last.php">Patrick</a> and Christopher, ages 17 and 13, respectively.</p>

<p>In related news, Shriver and Schwarzenegger's 13-year-old son, Christopher, was hospitalized earlier this week after a serious accident in Malibu. "The accident occurred while the teenager was boogie boarding in Malibu, Calif., on Sunday, <strong>resulting in a collapsed lung and multiple broken bones</strong>," reports <a href="http://www.accesshollywood.com/news/maria-shriver-and-arnold-schwarzeneggers-son-christopher-in-icu-following-serious-surfing-accident_article_50995">Access Hollywood</a>. He is currently in the ICU.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Shriver Went On Final Oprah, Only Talked About Oprah]]></title><description><![CDATA[The same day that the world learned that her husband the former <a href="http://sfist.com/2011/05/17/schwarzenegger_extramarital_baby_sh.php">Governator had fathered a child with an employee</a>, Mari...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2011/05/18/shriver_went_on_oprah_only_talked_a/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c242b2d44ad066cdcf6575b</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[Arnold Schwarzenegger]]></category><category><![CDATA[celebrity]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[Maria Shriver]]></category><category><![CDATA[oprah]]></category><category><![CDATA[Schwarzenegger]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Jay Barmann]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 May 2011 09:27:15 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2011/05/maria-shriver-oprah-ap-thumb-640xauto-625792.jpg" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2011/05/maria-shriver-oprah-ap-thumb-640xauto-625792.jpg" alt="Shriver Went On Final Oprah, Only Talked About Oprah"><p>The same day that the world learned that her husband the former <a href="http://sfist.com/2011/05/17/schwarzenegger_extramarital_baby_sh.php">Governator had fathered a child with an employee</a>, Maria Shriver hopped over to Chicago to appear on one of Oprah Winfrey's last shows, in blue sequins. The appearance was clearly scheduled long before Shriver knew her husband's philandering was going to be a huge national headline yesterday, and as <a href="http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/n/a/2011/05/17/state/n203528D92.DTL">the AP reports</a>, the topic didn't really come up.</p>

<blockquote>Shriver came on stage at the United Center with Winfrey's best friend, Gayle King. Shriver told Winfrey that the talk show host has "given me love, support, wisdom and most of all the truth." Shriver said she knew she wasn't "alone in receiving those gifts."... Shriver told Winfrey that the talk show host "believed in others so they could believe in themselves." </blockquote>

<p>We imagine Oprah was biting her tongue hard to keep from being like, "Maria, I'm sorry, we need to talk about this love child, girl."</p>

<p>In related news, <a href="http://www.tmz.com/2011/05/17/arnold-schwarzenegger-spitting-image-love-child-mildred-patricia-baena-patty-maria-shriver-illegitimate-lovechild-love-child-kid-out-of-wedlock-maid-cheating-household-staff-separated/">TMZ has obtained information and photos of the boy</a> Arnold Schwarzenegger fathered out of wedlock. He supposed looks "shockingly like" his father, even though the images are pixilated. </p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Patrick Schwarzenegger Changes Last Name to Shriver]]></title><description><![CDATA[After news broke today that <a href="http://sfist.com/2011/05/17/schwarzenegger_extramarital_baby_sh.php">Arnold Schwarzenegger fathered a child with a household employee</a> in 2003, which prompted t...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2011/05/17/patrick_schwarzenegger_changes_last/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c242b2e44ad066cdcf65779</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[Arnold Schwarzenegger]]></category><category><![CDATA[celebrity]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[Maria Shriver]]></category><category><![CDATA[Schwarzenegger]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Brock Keeling]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 17 May 2011 15:55:59 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2011/05/sadsonchangeslastname2-thumb-640xauto-625641.jpg" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2011/05/sadsonchangeslastname2-thumb-640xauto-625641.jpg" alt="Patrick Schwarzenegger Changes Last Name to Shriver"><p></p>

<p>After news broke today that <a href="http://sfist.com/2011/05/17/schwarzenegger_extramarital_baby_sh.php">Arnold Schwarzenegger fathered a child with a household employee</a> in 2003, which prompted the <a href="https://sfist.com/2011/05/17/patrick_schwarzenegger_changes_last/sfist.com/2011/05/09/schwarzenegger_and_shriver_announce.php">break up for his and Maria Shriver's marriage</a>, the former California Governor's 17-year-old son, Patrick, announced that he <a href="http://twitter.com/#!/PSchwarzenegger">changed his last name to Shriver</a>. The Schwarzenegger's third child went on to send out the following Twitter message, "Some days you feel like shit, some days you want to quit and just be normal for a bit, yet i love my family till death do us apart." </p>

<p>That's just...depressing. Poor guy.</p>

<p>Katherine Schwarzenegger, the couple's oldest child, sent out the following message a few hours later, "This is definitely not easy but I appreciate your love and support as i begin to heal and move forward in life. I will always love my family!"</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Schwarzenegger and Shriver Split]]></title><description><![CDATA[After 25 years of marriage, and just a few months out of Sacramento, California's former governor and first lady are putting their marriage on hold, <a href="http://www.latimes.com/news/politics/la-me...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2011/05/09/schwarzenegger_and_shriver_announce/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c242a3d44ad066cdcf5dc90</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[Arnold Schwarzenegger]]></category><category><![CDATA[celebrity]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[Maria Shriver]]></category><category><![CDATA[marriage]]></category><category><![CDATA[SF Politics]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Brock Keeling]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 21:35:31 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p>

<p>After 25 years of marriage, and just a few months out of Sacramento, California's former governor and first lady are putting their marriage on hold, <a href="http://www.latimes.com/news/politics/la-mew-arnold-maria-separate-20010510,0,2542211.story?track=rss">according to the L.A. Times</a>. Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver announced their separation tonight. Shriver will move out of the couple's Brentwood family home. The former role models of bipartisanship have been "residing apart" for the last few weeks and will continue to do so while they "work on the future of [their] relationship."</p>

<p>In a statement released tonight, Schwarzenegger and Shriver say that the decision to split came after the couple endured "a great deal of thought, reflection, discussion and prayer."</p>

<p>Although the two celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary on April 26, they have led separate lives in public ever since. After Schwarzenegger left office in January, the LA Times goes on to point out, "he has been jetting around the world, heading to Brazil's Xingu River with director James Cameron, to London for Mikhail Gorbachev's 80th birthday party, to Val d'Isère in France for skiing and to Washington, D.C., to attend a White House summit on immigration."</p>

<p>In a March 28 YouTube video, Shriver was seen in a YouTube video not wearing her wedding ring. Said video also has Shriver (rather suspiciously) asking her YouTube audience for tips on life transitions. </p>

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<p>The high-profile couple met in 1977, "when NBC's Tom Brokaw introduced Shriver to Schwarzenegger at a charity tennis tournament." They say they will continue to share the parenting of their four children</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Al and Tipper Gore Separate After 40 Years]]></title><description><![CDATA[Oh dear. Former Vice President and <a href="http://www.current.com">Current</a> co-founder Al Gore and his four-letter-word-eschewing wife, Tipper, will <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2010/0...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2010/06/01/al_tipper_gore_separate_after_40_ye/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c24244744ad066cdcf2c78d</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[Al Gore]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[SF Politics]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Brock Keeling]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 09:45:31 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2010/06/al gore tipper gore kiss-thumb-640xauto-513230.jpg" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2010/06/al gore tipper gore kiss-thumb-640xauto-513230.jpg" alt="Al and Tipper Gore Separate After 40 Years"><p></p>

<p>Oh dear. Former Vice President and <a href="http://www.current.com">Current</a> co-founder Al Gore and his four-letter-word-eschewing wife, Tipper, will <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2010/06/01/al-tipper-gore-break-years-marriage/">separate after 40 long years of marriage</a>. </p>

<p>According to an email obtained by Associated Press, Al writes that it's "a mutual and mutually supportive decision that we have made together following a process of long and careful consideration."</p>

<p><em>Woah.</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Getty Divorce Gets Ugly]]></title><description><![CDATA[High society dilettante and late-night <a href="http://sfist.com/2009/06/16/reading_this_post_will_make_you_wan.php#comment-1973051">SFist commenter</a> Peter Getty, according to <a href="http://gawke...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2010/03/31/getty_divorce_gets_ugly/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c24255344ad066cdcf35418</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[Getty]]></category><category><![CDATA[Gossip]]></category><category><![CDATA[peter getty]]></category><category><![CDATA[society]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Brock Keeling]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 15:03:59 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2010/03/peter getty and his catdsa-thumb-640xauto-493594.jpg" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2010/03/peter getty and his catdsa-thumb-640xauto-493594.jpg" alt="Getty Divorce Gets Ugly"><p></p>

<p>High society dilettante and late-night <a href="http://sfist.com/2009/06/16/reading_this_post_will_make_you_wan.php#comment-1973051">SFist commenter</a> Peter Getty, according to <a href="http://gawker.com/5506620/nasty-divorce-splits-the-coppolas-and-the-gettys">Gawker</a>, is going through a divorce -- a nasty one. His wife, Jacqueline Getty, a Coppola, <a href="http://www.tmz.com/2010/03/25/gordon-peter-getty-jacqueline-divorce-money-rich-jackson-pollock-paris-hilton-j-paul-getty/">accuses Getty</a> "threatening to kill her at least once, of breaking her arm by striking it, and of choking her." (Which: Oh my God, dude!) In return for his alleged acts of domestic violence, Jacqueline is asking for "$314,000 per month to support her lifestyle and an extra $200,000 per month on top of that." </p>

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<p>Last year, if you recall, Peter Getty got involved in a <a href="http://sfist.com/2009/06/18/peter_getty_responds_to_sfists_gett.php">fabulous verbal slap fight</a> with SFist and Gawker over his now-defunct "City Brights" column for SFGate.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Robin Wright Penn Files for Divorce -- Again]]></title><description><![CDATA[The drama never ends with these two. Once again, all is not well in the Wright-Penn house. According to <a href="http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20298679,00.html">People</a>, Robin Wright Penn...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2009/08/18/robin_wright_penn_files_for_divorce/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c24276944ad066cdcf467f3</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[celebrity]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[ronin wright-penn]]></category><category><![CDATA[Sean Penn]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Brock Keeling]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 11:10:02 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2009/08/sean-penn-robin-wright-thumb-640xauto-432446.jpg" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2009/08/sean-penn-robin-wright-thumb-640xauto-432446.jpg" alt="Robin Wright Penn Files for Divorce -- Again"><p></p>

<p>The drama never ends with these two. Once again, all is not well in the Wright-Penn house. According to <a href="http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20298679,00.html">People</a>, Robin Wright Penn filed for divorce from her husband Sean Penn last week. While the Marin-based celebrity couple have an off-again/on-again marriage, this latest development seems somewhat definite. "The papers, filed in Marin County, Calif., on Aug. 12, state that 'both parties have already agreed to [shared] custody' over their minor son, Hopper Jack, 16, and that 'the estranged couple have already agreed to division of all property.'" (Just who gets to call Tosca home away from home is still up in the air.) Irreconcilable differences is listed as the reason for the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9J7XE-ctMU">divorce</a>. The two, married in 1989, <a href="http://sfist.com/2008/04/10/sean_penn_robjn.php">have</a> <a href="http://sfist.com/2009/05/21/sean_penn_decides_not_to_file_for_d.php">filed for divorce</a> <a href="http://sfist.com/2009/04/29/sean_penn_files_for_divorce_again.php">twice</a>, as recently as May of this year. This also puts an end to rumors that Sean Penn might, in fact, be gay. He's not. With this kind of chronic drama, he is officially a lesbian.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Divorce No. 2 for Kimberly Guilfoyle?]]></title><description><![CDATA[This is coming from <em>Page Six</em>, so take it a massive salt lick. Kimberly Guilfoyle, Fox News Channel anchor and former wife of SF Mayor Gavin Newsom, has allegedly called it quits with her seco...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2009/06/23/divorce_no_2_for_kimberly_guilfoyle/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c24268a44ad066cdcf3f41a</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[Kimberly Guilfoyle]]></category><category><![CDATA[Newsom]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Brock Keeling]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 08:57:21 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2009/06/kim where did it all go wrong-thumb-640xauto-335821.jpg" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2009/06/kim where did it all go wrong-thumb-640xauto-335821.jpg" alt="Divorce No. 2 for Kimberly Guilfoyle?"><p></p>

<p>This is coming from <em>Page Six</em>, so take it a massive salt lick. Kimberly Guilfoyle, Fox News Channel anchor and former wife of SF Mayor Gavin Newsom, has allegedly called it quits with her second husband, Eric Villency. When the two met in 2006, according to <em><a href="http://www.nypost.com/seven/06232009/gossip/pagesix/splitsville_for_kim_guilfoyle_and_eric_v_175580.htm">Page Six</a></em>, "[p]assions flared, a prenup was signed, vows were swapped, and Ronan [their son], now 2, came along." Now, it seems, the two will get a divorce while sharing custody of their son. Alas. But is Kimberly hatching a plan to return to the warm, sinewy, long arms of Gavin? We can dream, can't we? (Oh, we kid, Jennifer! We kid! Sort of.)</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Sean Penn Decides Not to File for Divorce -- Again]]></title><description><![CDATA[After <a href="http://sfist.com/2007/12/28/sean_penn_robin.php">filing for divorce</a> iin 2007, then deciding not to, then filing <a href="http://sfist.com/2009/04/29/sean_penn_files_for_divorce_agai...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2009/05/21/sean_penn_decides_not_to_file_for_d/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c24262f44ad066cdcf3c6e2</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[marriage]]></category><category><![CDATA[Sean Penn]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Brock Keeling]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2009 14:57:44 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2009/05/whosafraid-thumb-640xauto-244302.jpg" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2009/05/whosafraid-thumb-640xauto-244302.jpg" alt="Sean Penn Decides Not to File for Divorce -- Again"><p></p>

<p>After <a href="http://sfist.com/2007/12/28/sean_penn_robin.php">filing for divorce</a> iin 2007, then deciding not to, then filing <a href="http://sfist.com/2009/04/29/sean_penn_files_for_divorce_again.php">again in late April on 2009</a>, Bay Area residents Sean Penn and Robin Wright Penn have decided not to file for divorce. <a href="http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20280453,00.html">Again</a>. Just why, exactly, Penn has twice has rescinded divorce papers isn't know. But how DARE you pry into the lives of super famous Hollywood celebrities?! People asked L.A. divorce lawyer Lynn Soodik, who is not remotely involved with the case or the Penns, just what it this means. "This appears to imply that they're reconciling again," Soodik says. "It's unlikely Sean Penn would request a dismissal for any other reason." Way to earn your paycheck, Lynn. Anyway, feel free to make wild assumptions and hurtful reasons as to why in the comments.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Sean Penn Files for Divorce -- Again]]></title><description><![CDATA[Two-time <a href="http://sfist.com/2009/02/23/sean_penns_oscar_speech.php">Academy Award winner </a>and Marin resident Sean Penn <a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30481038/">filed for divorce</a> f...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2009/04/29/sean_penn_files_for_divorce_again/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c24293744ad066cdcf550a4</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[celebrity]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[marin]]></category><category><![CDATA[Sean Penn]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Brock Keeling]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 13:45:43 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2009/04/sean penn files for divorce-thumb-640xauto-211500.jpg" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2009/04/sean penn files for divorce-thumb-640xauto-211500.jpg" alt="Sean Penn Files for Divorce -- Again"><p></p>

<p>Two-time <a href="http://sfist.com/2009/02/23/sean_penns_oscar_speech.php">Academy Award winner </a>and Marin resident Sean Penn <a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30481038/">filed for divorce</a> from his wife, actress Robin Wright-Penn.  Penn filed the papers on Friday. If you recall, Sean and Robin had planned on calling it quits <a href="http://sfist.com/2007/12/28/sean_penn_robin.php">back in December 2007</a>, but reconciled. The thespianic couple, who have two children, starred in several movies together, including <em><a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0119336">Hurlyburly</a></em> (1998) and <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120112/">She’s So Lovely</a> (1997). But the question remains, why are they breaking up? Who's to say. Maybe Penn and James Franco can <a href="http://sfist.com/2008/08/14/sean_penn_amazed_at_james_francos_m.php">finally</a> <a href="http://images.huffingtonpost.com/gen/10579/thumbs/s-PENN-FRANCO-LOVERS-large.jpg">be</a> <a href="http://img.metro.co.uk/i/pix/2009/01/milkfilmstill_450x300.jpg">together</a>? We can only hope.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Divorce Debate of Prop 8]]></title><description><![CDATA[While lawyers and civil rights advocates agree that <a href="http://sfist.com/search?cx=001614944843134777762:b_fobmtn1w4&cof=FORID:9&q=prop+8&sa=GO%3F#1088">Prop 8</a> will (most likely) be upheld wh...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2009/03/19/the_divorce_debate_of_prop_8/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c24263e44ad066cdcf3ce62</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[court]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[gay marriage]]></category><category><![CDATA[Law]]></category><category><![CDATA[prop 8]]></category><category><![CDATA[propisition 8]]></category><category><![CDATA[same sex marriage]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Brock Keeling]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 14:58:52 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2009/03/prop 8 divorces-thumb-640xauto-72063.jpg" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://img.sfist.com/assets_c/2009/03/prop 8 divorces-thumb-640xauto-72063.jpg" alt="The Divorce Debate of Prop 8"><p></p>

<p>While lawyers and civil rights advocates agree that <a href="http://sfist.com/search?cx=001614944843134777762:b_fobmtn1w4&amp;cof=FORID:9&amp;q=prop+8&amp;sa=GO%3F#1088">Prop 8</a> will (most likely) be upheld when the State Supreme Court makes its decision, no one can say for sure if forced divorces will affect the 18,000+ couples who were legally married. In what could be the biggest debate in all of this is, well, "is." The wording of Prop 8 reads like this: “Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California." Kenneth Starr claimed during this month's hearing that the phrase “is recognized,” even in the present tense, would also nullify existing <a href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5gjwi2TR9pFd-Y7a9bw52k_UAk16gD970NQO00">same-sex marriages</a> that happened in the past. But as <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/law/2009/03/19/please-dont-divorce-us-another-look-at-proposition-8/">Ashby Jones of the <em>Wall Street Journal</em></a> points out, "Advocates who favor allowing the gay marriages to stand point to a California legal tradition of protecting what are called 'vested rights.' The idea is that if somebody obeyed the law in exercising a right, any new law must be extremely clear in its intent to take away that right." That is to say, if you want a law to work retroactively, said law must be clear about  it; the gay marriage ban was not. (Also for comprehensive coverage about civil marriage equality in California, check out <a href="http://stop8.org/">Stop8.org</a>.)</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Prop 8's Forced-Divorces Will Break Our Hearts]]></title><description><![CDATA[We dare you to <a href="http://www.couragecampaign.org/page/s/divorce">watch the Courage Campaign's Fidelity video</a> and not get all weepy. We were able to keep it together until it got to the big c...]]></description><link>https://sfist.com/2009/02/06/prop_8s_forced-divorces_will_break/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5c24284544ad066cdcf4db1f</guid><category><![CDATA[SF News]]></category><category><![CDATA[courage campaign]]></category><category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category><category><![CDATA[equality]]></category><category><![CDATA[equality california]]></category><category><![CDATA[gays]]></category><category><![CDATA[love]]></category><category><![CDATA[marriage]]></category><category><![CDATA[prop 8]]></category><category><![CDATA[proposition 8]]></category><category><![CDATA[Supreme Court]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Matt Baume]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2009 09:51:07 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><object width="400" height="302"><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true">
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<p>March 5 is the big day -- that's when the Supreme Court will hear arguments about Prop 8. You can <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/law/2009/02/04/on-march-5-set-your-tivos-to-the-california-channel/">read the schedule here</a>. There's a lot of work to do before the hearing, and Equality California's <a href="http://www.eqca.org/site/pp.asp?c=kuLRJ9MRKrH&amp;b=4815401">prepping for the big day with five actions</a> -- now's a crucial time to spread the word about how much pain Prop 8 will inflict when it takes away all those marriages. And the <a href="http://www.peninsulamarriageequalitycoalition.com/">Peninsula Marriage Equality Coalition has a bunch of handy workshops coming up</a> about how to persuade allies.</p>

<p>And speaking of spreading the word, an excellent article in this week's <a href="http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/wait-wait-dont-marry-me/Content?oid=1064909">Stranger</a> points out that a key component in achieving lasting civil equality is an educated electorate. To that end, we hope you're participating in <a href="http://www.tell-three.org/">Tell3</a>, a brilliant campaign to educate your family and friends about why civil rights matter to you personally. "We used to think coming out would win us our rights," the site says. "Now we know it takes more than that." Get to work, everybody!</p>

<p><i>Disclosure: SFist_Matt is the creator of <a href="http://stop8.org">Stop8.org</a>, a site that monitors the media for reporting on California marriage equality.</i></p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>