After today's profoundly disappointing news that gay marriage was repealed in the state of Maine -- alas, unadulterated hate wins again -- rallies will be held across the country starting tonight.

To find the gay marriage rally closest to you, or to start one in your hometown, please check out and contribute to this handy Twitter feed. It has loads of up-to-the-second information.

In related news, San Francisco will have a gay marriage protest tonight, starting at 6 p.m. Check it:

What: One Struggle, One Fight
Time: 6 pm - 9pm
Location: Harvey Milk Plaza (intersection of Market and Castro Streets), SF
Date: Tonight, Nov. 4

Today also marks the one year anniversary of Prop 8, California's anti-gay marriage proposition. Sigh. But on the brighter side, as Brian Devine expertly put it, "bigots die off; it's only a matter of time." (Frank Schubert, campaign director of Stand for Marriage Maine, thankfully, doesn't look like he has much life left in him to spread further pain.)

But not all news is glum, friends. Former Miss California, professional homosexual hater, and confused free-speech advocate Carrie Prejean has a sex tape. All it cost her was a million-dollar lawsuit against Miss California USA.